This morning I’m sitting with a heavy heart.
years months weeks have been full of news that would make even the unobservant reader realise that South Africa is not a country for women. On paper we are equal. Yet, in the day to day, we are living with the constant threat that we will become the victim of violence if we have not already become one.
I don’t believe we’re hearing more about this just because it’s women’s month, and if women’s month is just an opportunity for everyone to remind us of how truly traumatic and tiring it is to be a woman in this country then I’d really like us to forget about women’s month altogether.
As a society at large, South Africa is fine with women’s suffering.
In the past 24 hours, three stories that would have other countries starting commissions of enquiry and plugging resources into social crime prevention will simply disappear by the end of the week amidst the many other stories of violence against women. I don’t want these stories to disappear.
One – almost half of Khayelitsha school learners have experienced sexual violence and girls were more likely than boys to report abuse. Two – a young woman who reported her rape to Rhodes University committed suicide before returning to campus for further discussions following her report of the rape on July 30th. The alleged rapist was only suspended this morning according to a press release sent by the university. Three – police charge protestors raising awareness about violence against women because they demanded that the President of the country they
live survive in listen to them and their demands.
To be born a girl in this country and make it to your old age unharmed is a statistical improbability. The definition of female might as well be ‘afraid.’
Are you fine with this? I can’t be.
So what are we going to do about it?
One thought on “South Africa hates women – are you fine with that?”
These stories usually just deflate me to such an extent that I can’t even think about them. I can’t even think of words that adequately describe the situation, or how I feel. But I was saying to Zoe the other day that doing nothing is just as deflating.
What CAN we do??? What can I do??
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